Do You Really Want To Change Your Life?

I know it's rhetorical, no matter who you are or where you are, there are things you'd like to be different in your life.

That doesn't mean you have to be unhappy with how life is now, it's just that you want something different in certain areas in your life.

Maybe you want to change your career, maybe you want to find more purpose in your life, maybe you want to create greater financial abundance, maybe you want to get in better shape, maybe you want to find your soulmate, maybe you want to elevate your relationship with your spouse to have it better than ever before, maybe you want to become a better parent. My whole point is we always have things we want to improve and change in our lives.

So what holds people back from changing? If you know you want to change, why don't you?

My guess is that if you told me what that area is you want to change, you've been wanting to change for awhile. It's probably not something that just happened in the last week and now all of the sudden you want to change. You have wanted to for awhile, maybe I'm wrong.

If that's the case though, you've been wanting to change for awhile. Why haven't you?

I think I have an answer for that. I think that if you're like most people, you do want to change but the truth is you spend very little time focusing on what that new change is, instead you're spending so much of your mental and emotional energy on how your life IS.

In my live seminars and coaching this is one of the things I spend so much time helping people understand.

This is one of the greatest obstacles in our thinking, by continually focusing on WHAT IS, all you do is reinforce WHAT IS. What you resist, persists. What you focus on expands. Where you place your attention is where you place your energy. Whatever you give your energy to, will come about in your life.

YES, IT IS THAT SIMPLE! That doesn't always mean it's easy to do, said better it's easy to forget that.

I want this week's newsletter to be a reminder to you that you're in charge of your life, you're in charge of your destiny, you're in charge of who you become and what you attract.

You may or may not fully believe that yet, and I hope that you're developing a greater awareness of the fact that you are the one commonality in all of your life. No matter where you go, you are there. No matter who you are with, you're there. You are the cause in your life.

The most beautiful thing is that YOU CAN CHANGE AT ANY POINT IN TIME.

So here's a tip for you, if you really do want to change your life, then start focusing on the change you want. Start seeing yourself as the new you, start imagining living that way already.

That's step one, step two is TAKE THE NEXT STEP! So often we sit around waiting for the perfect moment or time, I have news for you. It's right now. It's always now.

You do not need to know how to figure it all right now, and I can almost guarantee if you stopped and thought about it, you would easily be able to figure out the next step. So take it. Then from there you'll be able to figure out the next steps.

As Sia sings in the song Flames "Figure it out, figure it out, but don't stop moving"

In other words, TAKE THE NEXT STEP!

If you've been enjoying my newsletter, my podcasts, or any of my social media content. I would like to have you come attend my next live seminar, Vibe Higher.

It's coming up quick on April 15th in Edmonton, AB. In person is close to 70% sold out but there are still some tickets left!

You can get in person tickets or live stream tickets on this link.

Your partner in life success,

Ben Spangl